We think our picker is broken, but really, it is directly related to how we feel about ourselves. On a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being the highest), if we feel like a level 3 person, we find people who will treat us like a 3. If you see yourself as a 9 or 10, you’ll find partners to treat you that way as well. The same goes for family, social, and work relationships.
What to do…
Develop your inner light!
Begin with your beliefs. What level person do you believe you are?
The answer: Everyone is born a 10!
What if you could stop all of the “old stories” in your head that get in your way? You know the stories about the times you’ve made mistakes, been hurt, or hurt someone else. The stories that lower our level of belief in ourselves and makes us act in ways that are totally out of alignment with who we really are.
Take a few moments to change channels, get out of your head, and tune into your heart. Your heart knows who you truly are. Our heart knows the “real story” that at our essence; we are a level 10 person.
Take a look at your relationships, what do you see?
What would be different if your actions supported being a 10?
As we cultivate our radiance, we free ourselves from romantic dyslexia, and have the relationships that we truly deserve.